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    What I am up to with Natalie

    Friday, February 1, 2008, 05:45 PM EST [General]

    So Natalie has posted on her blog what she is up to and I am helping with. Emotional and psychological abuse etc should all be treated with equal weight if not more severely then the physical abuse. There needs to be accountability. After what she has been through as well as the kids over the past years I can not sit idly by. Everything she has told me as well as what I hear from the kids plus what I have heard a and witnessed just begs a call to action. it motivates me, it infuriates me and drives me to make her goal a reality and see this through. Not just on a personal level because of our relationship and that those will someday be my step-kids but also as a man and as a human being. what happened to her and them can not be allowed to continue!!!

    I love her and the kids with all my heart and soul. To have them live just one more day, one more more hour or even one more moment spent like this is too long and tears me apart inside. What she and I went through with the misscarriage in August due to all the stress and drama of this is deplorable and sad. i would not wish that on my worst enemy.

    Respect of rights is a two way street ..So called Father's rights groups are well good but look at the whole picture please ...Look at what the life of the child, the life of the parent are like BEFORE you jump to either side. This world has been too long a old boy's club mentality and that needs to change. Women are the caregivers, the bringers and carrier of life and the basis of our society. They should be treated with respect and love and NEVER as a second class citizen.
    Abusing a woman, mentally, psychologically , sexually, beating down their spirit to make yourself feel better is reprehensible. I should say that is actually a two way street as well. There are some women who do the same to men. What we are after is protection for ANYONE from this type of harm and abuse.

    Yes I do realize this is not a easy goal she is after but it WILL be done. Common sense and human dignity WILL prevail here. How can anyone in good conscience be opposed to this? Most the people that we have talked to about this are actually shocked there is not a law like this already. Education, accountability for your actions and misdeeds that is what this is about. It is all BASIC human tenets that any society would subscribe to.

    NO man has the right to do any of those actions that were outlined in that blog. It is deplorable and disgusting. You wouldn't treat a dog that way why would you treat another human being?

    No person should have to live this way, no woman should have had to endure what she endured and be subjected to what had / has happened. No child should have to live that way and experience what they have experienced / witnessed in their lives.

    They are all beautiful, wonderful loving kids and Natalie is a beautiful, loving compassionate and passionate woman .. it is a honour and a privilege to have her in my life and one I do not take lightly.

    I am for this cause, i love her and I love the kids. No one should have to live that way.

    Your love, support, well wishes are all appreciated...

    Thank you all..jason

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    Happy Yule and some rambling

    Wednesday, December 19, 2007, 06:53 PM EST [General]

    So tis the season.  Yule is fast approaching as is the new year.  It has been a exciting year.  This has truly been a year of discovery, learning and of finding true and lasting love and happiness.
    My friends,  i urge you all to chase your dreams and be true to yourself.   beliefs are not cookiecutters and following ones path is the best way to be.  i know on that I am preaching to the choir so to speak but even in our world people tend not to divert even a little from their path.  One i realized that my beliefs are my own and that no belief system will fill all my needs the emotional and spiritual walls came tumbling down.
    Openly embracing who I am and what I am is the key for me.  openly embracing the love and the connection between Natalie and me completed the circle.
    Life has been interesting.  My love for her has never wained and grows on a daily basis.  Connecting with someone on soo many levels is quite beautiful.  i look forward to the journey we are on.
    Yule and Christmas will have a more special meaning this year then ever before because of her.  there are many reasons to celebrate this year and honour those who helped bring us to this point in life.  i honour My beautiful witch this season as well as all my friends and family.
    Enjoy the holiday and the festivals.

    Jason
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